Sexual Wholeness is not something you can buy with a wedding ring (on an online course); you must win its rewards through a personal integration of faith and sexuality that is unique to your spiritual walk with God!
Click on the link to join a community of Christian men committed to integrating faith & sexuality!
PhD - Learning, Instruction, & Innovation
M.Ed - Adult Education and Training
M.Div - [in progress]
Twelve years ago, I decided I was time to end the frustration, misery, and shame of a Christian sexual ethic whose only guidance was "get married first." I was done "fleeing" and failing all the time in a war that I didn't understand - but I wasn't ready to give up the idea that God had something important to say about sex.
So I turned to the scripture, I opened my life to the spirit, and I found the answer I was looking for but did not expect!
You can read the whole story of how I ended the war between God and sex at www.sacrednotsinful.com
Today I help Christian men experience sexual satisfaction instead of shame by giving them access resources and guidance on the journey to sexual wholeness.
My approach to instruction is integrated, empowering, innovative, and grounded in truth and love - an instructional model that comes from the book of Proverbs! If you want to see my educational philosophy, go to www.humancenteredlearning.org
There are two steps to join the Courageous Intimacy community for Christian men:
1. Hero's Call - I use this to make sure you will be a good fit with the community. We are a diverse community with a common value for integrating faith and sexuality.
Membership fee - $20 gives you lifetime membership in the Courageous Intimacy community. If you struggle to afford the fee, let me know on the call.
This Courageous Intimacy community welcomes every unique expression of sexuality, gender, and relationship style that honors your pursuit of intimacy with God and with others. However, this group is exclusively for those whose experience of sexuality is mediated through a male body. The only blanket celebration or affirmation we provide is to the cultivation of sexual wholeness - in whatever form that takes.
Thanks to the unhealthy sexual ethics of modern Christianity, many of us had to leave behind the labels of Christianity in order to experience a relationship with God. We welcome those of all faiths (or of no particular tradition) as long as you have some familiarity (or at least interest and respect) for the Bible, the teachings of Jesus, and the Christian community. If you are uncomfortable with questions or critical thinking, you will not want to join.
Values:
Curiosity - learning, discovery, and understanding are more important than reputation or performance
Compassion - everyone has their own unique journey to integrate faith & sexuality and we are here to support each other in every way
Creativity - welcome disagreement, questions, and diversity of perspectives! We are here to discover and live out a better answer, not conform to someone else's expectations or interpretations of the Bible
Community Guidelines:
No spam, promotions, or irrelevant content. If you share an idea or resource you did not create, you must offer a note of why it is meaningful to you.
If you claim someone is going to hell for disagreeing with you, you will be removed immediately.
Sowing discord or personally attacking others will be grounds for suspension from the group. (Note: discord and disagreement are very different things. If you struggle with this distinction, ask for help. One of our goals as a community is to develop relational skills...and this includes healthy disagreement!)
"You know how to ask the right questions
"I finally have clarity on what is holding me back from the intimacy I want to experience."
"I came into this feeling very conflicted and confused of what I believed about sexuality and intimacy. After going through this with Kevin, I feel enlightened, awakened, and secure about what I need to do and who I am."
"I've never told anyone this before"
"I feel like there might be a way forward now."
"It's also just nice to have someone to talk to about it, you know."
I feel like God led me to your profile for a reason and I would really love some help learning HEALTHY sexual desire.
Use this form to send me a message about anything! You can even make it anonymous. Everything you share here is confidential.
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